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Journaling Tips for Challenging Anxious Thoughts

Journaling isn’t just about keeping a diary or practicing your handwriting in the digital age. When done intentionally, it’s a powerful tool to process anxious thoughts, manage stress, and shift your mindset when life starts to feel overwhelming.

The truth is, anxiety thrives in silence. It grows when we keep our fears bottled up, replaying worst-case scenarios in our minds. Journaling interrupts that cycle. It gives you space to unload, reflect, and reframe your thoughts—on your own terms.

You don’t need to journal every day or write pages of poetic insight. You just need a few minutes, something to write with, and the willingness to get real with yourself.

Here’s a straightforward guide to using journaling to work through anxiety—whether you do it daily, weekly, or whenever the spiral starts.


1. Write It All Down—Unfiltered

Start with a brain dump. Grab a notebook, open a notes app—whatever feels easy. Don’t worry about grammar, style, or whether what you’re writing makes sense. This isn’t for anyone else to read. Let your thoughts come out messy and raw.

Write about what’s bothering you. What happened today? What are you afraid might happen tomorrow? What’s sitting heavy in your chest right now?

Getting your worries out of your head and onto the page helps make them tangible. You might realize some of your thoughts are repetitive, irrational, or blown out of proportion. That alone can take the edge off.

This is your mental purge—dump it all so you’re not carrying it.

2. Read It Back and Ask the Right Questions

Once you’ve let it all out, pause. Read what you wrote. No judgment, just curiosity.

Then start asking yourself a few key questions to challenge your anxious thinking:

  •  How likely is it that this will actually happen?
  •  If it did, what would I do?
  •  What’s the worst-case scenario—and is it really as bad as I’ve made it out to be?
  •  Are there other ways to look at this situation?
  •  What’s something positive or neutral that could come from this?

This step is important. It shifts you from spiraling into problem-solving. You’re not ignoring the anxiety—you’re examining it from different angles. You might even notice that your inner critic is running the show. Calling that out is a step toward taking your power back.

3. Flip the Script

Now, open a fresh page and take on a new voice: the compassionate, rational one.

Pretend you’re giving advice to a close friend who’s feeling the way you do right now. What would you say to them? How would you help them see things more clearly?

Start writing from that perspective. Talk to yourself with kindness and logic. Reframe the situation using your own wisdom. Highlight your strengths, your track record of resilience, and the fact that you’ve made it through tough times before.

Then take it a step further—make a plan.

If you’re anxious about something specific, like losing your job, write down what you’d actually do. Would you update your resume? Reach out to your network? Apply to roles that better align with your goals?

By writing out a plan, you take back control. Anxiety loves ambiguity—having a next step is often enough to settle the nervous energy.

4. Ground Yourself in the Present

After you've journaled your worries, reflected on them, and reframed them, shift your focus to the now.

Ask: What can I do today to take care of myself?

Maybe it’s calling a friend, getting outside for a walk, or finally booking that therapy appointment. Maybe it’s something small but powerful, like making a nourishing meal or cleaning up your space.

Also, consider preventive journaling. Write down a short list of things that ground you when anxiety hits. Create a go-to page in your journal you can return to: breathing techniques, affirmations, reminders of your support system, past wins.

Journaling doesn’t fix everything, but it reminds you that you’re not powerless.

Final Thoughts

Anxiety can be loud, intrusive, and all-consuming. But journaling gives you a quiet place to sort through the noise. It’s a simple, effective way to challenge your thoughts, get perspective, and remind yourself that you're capable of handling what’s ahead.

The best part? You don’t need fancy tools or hours of free time. Just a few minutes, a pen, and the willingness to be honest with yourself.

You’ve got this!


Your Turn

Start with one journal entry today. Don’t overthink it—just write what’s on your mind. Then try reading it back and flipping the script. If it helps even a little, keep going.

Need help getting started? Use this link to access my free list 20 journal prompts for anxious minds.

Let’s rewrite your story—one page at a time.