Supportive Minds is an educational and empowerment platform dedicated to helping neurodivergent individuals, families, veterans, and professionals understand and harness the power of the mind. Founded by Mary Stanley, a Holistic Neurodiverse & Trauma Practitioner, veteran, and mother of two autistic children, we focus on neuroscience-backed, practical strategies that remove "normal" from the equation. With international certifications in NLP, Time Line Therapy, Hypnotherapy, CBT, Energy Kinesiology, EFT, and Integrative Therapy, we provide tools to navigate challenges, break free from labels, and create lasting change. At Supportive Minds, we believe there is nothing wrong with being neurodiverse—only untapped potential waiting to be discovered.
Supportive Minds • Full time
Sep, 2017 - Present • 7 yrs 6 mos
Supportive Minds is an inclusive educational platform dedicated to empowering neurodivergent individuals, families, and professionals. We provide insights, resources, and real conversations to help people move beyond labels, embrace their unique strengths, and thrive.
Through engaging content—including blogs, podcasts, and community discussions—we explore neurodiversity, personal growth, mental well-being, and the latest research. Our mission is to foster understanding, challenge misconceptions, and offer practical strategies for living authentically.
At Supportive Minds, we believe neurodivergence isn’t something to be “fixed”—it’s something to be understood, supported, and celebrated.
Supportive Minds • Full time
Jun, 2014 - Present • 10 yrs 9 mos
Being a mother to two incredible neurodivergent children, Arianna and David, has shaped not only my personal journey but also my mission in life. Every day, I navigate the joys and challenges of parenting with patience, adaptability, and a deep commitment to understanding their unique minds.
I advocate for their needs, create personalized strategies to support their growth, and embrace the beauty of seeing the world through their perspectives. My experience has given me firsthand insight into the struggles many families face—meltdowns, communication barriers, and the search for the right support systems.
This journey has fueled my passion for Supportive Minds, where I help other parents and individuals move beyond limiting labels and find strength in their differences. I believe that every child deserves to be seen, heard, and understood, and I strive to empower families with the tools and knowledge they need to thrive.
Motherhood isn’t about fitting into a mold—it’s about embracing the unique path of each child and guiding them toward their fullest potential.
Degree: Neurodiversity and autism Coach •  Dec, 2024 – Dec, 2024
international autism coaching
Degree: Energy Kinesiology •  Sep, 2024 – Oct, 2025
NLP,, Time Line Therapy, Kinesiology, Hypnosis, positive psychology
Degree: Neurobiology •  May, 2024 – Aug, 2024
Certificate neurobiology
I am Mary Stanley founder of Supportive Minds, Optimize My Life Live Talk Radio Host and a Holistic Neurodiverse and Trauma Practitioner. As a mother of two Autistic children a veteran and a passionate advocate for neurodiverse individuals I bring both personal experience and professional expertise to help families overcome challenges and thrive. With a background in behavior therapies, hypnosis, energy regulation, NLP Time line therapy and cognitive techniques. I specialize in helping individuals move beyond labels to develop self-regulation emotional resilience and confidence. My approach is personalized and natural, focusing on the Mind-body connection to create real lasting change. Through supportive minds, I provide education strategies and support to help families turn everyday struggles whether at home school or the grocery stores into opportunities for growth. As the Host on Optimize my life I engage listeners to topics ranging from mental well being and neurodiversity to faith trauma, transition and personal grow offering fresh perspectives and practical solutions. My mission is to bridge the gap between struggling and success giving neurodivergent individuals and their families the tools they need to thrive not just cope whether through my coaching educational platforms or radio shows. I am here to provide real solutions support and empowerment.